Ah, the thing is, it doesn't have to be that, at all, because there's a difference between being attractive and being approachable.. For instance, confidence is widely attractive. I think the worst of it is when you're dating someone, and they slowly get more and more "protective" of you. And despite having the education, work experience, and letters of recommendation from influential people, dorky engineers in ill-fitting Polo shirts can not comprehend that she knows how to do her job because she is young and gorgeous. Hence, beauties get to partake in some of that power. Being pretty makes finding a job easier. I can wear make up, do my hair, wear a lovely dress and heels and I'll never look like a 9/10. The best and the worst parts of being conventionally beautiful are handed to us, and we can choose to accept the parts we want. Go on to discover millions of awesome videos and pictures in thousands of other categories. Like one time I was at his place on a Friday night, and we were just hanging out, when his sister comes home with a dude (she'd been out drinking), and she then says good night, but the dude obviously doesn't want to leave (she's done this more than once, as innocent as she is she honestly think they're just walking her home, but they of course want more), and in this particular incident I had to literally grab him, drag him out the door and push him away, and then lock the door. Nicole Flasco. He gave me the street address to meet him at, which turned out to be a lounge downtown and he decided he was too tired to talk about boring work... Women either hate you and act competitive or they worship you and start imitating you, which can be really creepy. Woman Asks Reddit Users How They Deal With Not Being “Pretty” And Man’s Reply Wins The Internet So, being emotionally high-maintenance can be a positive thing because it allows for that vulnerability to come out, which can bring you and your partner much closer. It has to be because I’m ugly. My boyfriend and I were cuddling in his bed, my head on his shoulder, his arm around me in a tight embrace. I hardly get a second glance anymore, but I had similar experiences until recently. But I do not recall any of us being pretty in the way that today’s young women are uniformly obliged to be. 30.5m members in the AskReddit community. And I am a Arab man. I don't think having someone know they're attractive makes them less attractive necessarily. It was weird. Men, especially older ones, kind of went out of their way to do things for me, like making a big show out of holding a door open and prolonging their interactions with me with lots of eye contact and lingering touches to my arm or back or hip. This is a safe place to candidly share thoughts, promote respect, and foster good discussions. People hate attractive people who know and understand their perceived power over others. Know that beauty also comes from the inside. Your wife sounds awesome. I've got your schedule in order, do you want to see my tits now? My best friends sister is very attractive, and although she's not your stereotypical dumb hot chick, she was very often oblivious to guys hitting on her and making a move. It depends on what you mean by “the worst”. I know plenty of pretty and beautiful people who have gotten bullied. Probably they need therapy after the fact. View 3 832 NSFW pictures and enjoy PrettyGirls with the endless random gallery on Scrolller.com. From sideboobs to scruffy chests, we found a lot of sexy … There are many bad things in this world and on the internet. Any stupid thing. I was born with many features considered conventionally attractive, and those combined with a fast metabolism, great health, and decent skills with makeup all contribute to a pretty good-looking exterior. But I also get called cute, hot, and beautiful. For most of my life, I looked like a stereotypical nerdy girl: no fashion sense, sporting glasses and nose always buried in a book. Being confident in her looks, knows she turns heads but it is silent about it; assertive in a way. But the real upside of beauty is all the practical powers that go along with being desired. I once had a boss take me on a "surprise date" by saying he wanted to meet up to discuss work-after work. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. Taylor Hill/FilmMagic. Cat called, assumed to be as smart as a brick, sexualized without trying, attracting men so often you can't figure out their intentions so you stay single because you don't want to be used by a guy who just wants to brag to friends that he Fked you. I’ve definitely passed a few classes I shouldn’t have by batting my big brown eyes and crying crocodile tears. It's cool though, she dries her tears in her beautiful eyes with that awesome paycheck she receives every two weeks. Since it was an honor to be sacrificed to a god this seems logical, as only the best and most pure could have such a chance. /R/Jailbait was a subreddit devoted to content that featured provocative photos and videos of teenagers. But someone with a lack of confidence tends to be more approachable, and might get more strangers interacting with them, either positively or negatively. Men became extremely helpful. I thought every girl lived like that. There’s actually been good research into the advantages of beauty. I know it shouldn't bother me but it does- I want to be beautiful, and I get so jealous that these other girls are born pretty. They basically straight up said I wouldn't have gotten the job if I hadn't nailed the interview as hard as I did. Having James Blunt sing that song to you. Being pretty is a goal for lots of people--it’s a great way to improve your self esteem and self confidence! You never know if people actually like you or just want to bang you. How do you deal with not being … Do you have any insight to offer on why some attractive women get angry when you don't treat them the way everyone else treats them? Being pretty has some major benefits. Stared at often. The complications of being a ‘pretty girl’ are just those of every woman: just multiply each problem on how others rate you in attractiveness — of course I am but one being, so I’m limited to my own experiences — but basically anyone can be determined as a ‘pretty girl’. Most people would assume that being attractive makes life easier. In Africa some tribal dudes offered my parents 10 camels for my step sister. r/AskReddit is the place to ask and answer thought-provoking questions. "Height, and being what I describe is dangerously attractive. Lots of people are like Damn you like nice in that dress. Press J to jump to the feed. Enter college, male students staring during lecture, professors and GSIs being extra friendly, you get grades you know you didn't really deserve, invited to parties by people you barely know, told you're beautiful by random people on the street. 31.0m members in the AskReddit community. It was pretty disgusting. In an honest effort to help these women I have come up with some tips and suggestions on how to deal with the crippling burden of being beautiful. In my opinion, racism and Nazism are among them, and nobody should be allowed to post racist or Nazi comments. Being Pretty Is a Privilege, But We Refuse to Acknowledge It. 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